He's Just Not That Into You

He’s just not that into you.
Jadi bermula dari saya yang –baru- menonton film dengan judul yg sama tersebut.
He’s just not that into you.
Well, mungkin bukan film yang “bagus” tapi cukup lah. Secara ada Ben Affleck dan Bradley Cooper nya gitu, hehe (kebiasaan cewe)
Hmm, jadi, dari film tersebut, saya mengambil beberapa kesimpulan, jujur saja, tokoh utama di film itu, GG (oleh Ginnifer Goodwin) mirip sekali dengan beberapa wanita seperti saya barangkali, yakni, seringkali bingung whether “He’s into you” or “He’s just not that into you” ?
Jadi untuk para pemuda, wanita seperti saya, akan mengambil kesimpulan, dari beberapa perlakuan anda-anda seperti dibawah ini. Saya membaginya menjadi beberapa rules untuk wanita.
He’s just NOT that into you…
Rule #1 : If he said that he would call after the long-beautiful dinner (for you) but he didn’t ever call, he’s just not that into you.
Pasti akan ada pembelaan seperti, “baiklah, mungkin dia gak ada pulsa” (pliss, dia mestinya punya pulsa orang baru aja traktir dinner)
Atau, “mungkin nomor kita terhapus di phonebook nya” (Hello girl! Kalau dia anggap kamu penting, mana mungkin bisa kehapus)
Last, “dia sibuk” (ohmaigat! Someone who has a crush on you, he’ll make you as a priority, dude!)
Jadi, jangn ada alasan bagi kamu untuk menghubungi dia lebih dulu. HE SHOULD TEXT OR CALL YOU FIRST!

Rule #2 : If he never asks you out.
Hmm, ini juga. A guy who is into you, is willing to spend a time together with you, jadi, kalau dia hanya sebatas berbalas pesan dan atau mengomentari status facebook mu, he’s just “playing” (maybe)

Rule #3 : If he never texts or calls you first, although he replies you well.
Well, a guy is naturally aggressive, jadi sewajarnya, he does first in flirting, right ?

Rule #4 : If he used to call or text you often but in several days lately, he doesn’t.
Hmm, alasan ini mungkin belum cukup sempurna. But, semestinya, he got you kan, lalu kenapa ngga getting closer semakin hari. Kecuali kalau dia nanti muncul lagi dan “mengembalikan kebiasaan” itu. : )

Rule #4 : if he’s kind to you, very kind, but he does the same to every women.
Hmm, iyaaa, kenapa dia harus berbuat baik sama semua gadis, itu bagus, sangat bagus tuan. Tapi untuk para perempuan, woman needs to be special, a woman like me, so, when you treat it well to all your close-friend, I conclude that you’re just not into me.

Rule #5 : if he doesn’t ever look for you when you’re not around.
Iya, when you’re getting far, or going somewhere, a guy who likes you, he should look for you. If he doesn’t, he’s just not interested.

Rule #6 : If he just lives his life and doesn’t even think about you.
Dari film itu, pemuda yang “had a crush on girl” mestinya berpikir banyak tentang si wanita, bahkan yang asalnya workaholic sekalipun. ; )

Rule #7 : If he’s care, he’s kind, and he treats you well –very- but he never says he likes you.
Iya! Poin pentingnya disitu. A guy is naturally gentle. ; )
If he likes, just say that. If he wants you, just try to get you. He should!

Hahaha, well, after I had watched that film, it explains me a lot of things what am I supposed to feel when someone tries to get closer. Just for keeping my heart, preventing for a guy who “plays”
Because –for a woman like me- a heart is not for playing, dude. It’s the most important thing. It keeps a lot of important things, a half soul is there exist.
Jadi, he’s into you, or not into you ? hahahaha